Reese And Ryan Share Custody For The Holidays

" As the holidays approach, Reese Witherspoon faces a dilemma familiar to countless divorced parents – how to share custody of her young children on those special days. "I think the most important thing is to be a grownup," she says, "and not let any kind of feelings affect how you deal with your children." For the mother-of-two – who finalized her divorce from Ryan Phillippe in June – that means having "a lot of communication" with her ex-husband and "just being very open.""I'm very lucky in that we raise our kids to just be happy," the actress, 32, said Sunday in Beverly Hills while promoting her film Four Christmases – a comedy that focuses on the challenges of blended families. "I think the most important thing is the children. What do they want, what makes them feel comfortable?"
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